Things I Did To Move On

Assalamualaikum wbt.

Thank you iium confession if sudi siarkan my simple yet based on my own experience. ok nak cite a few things i did to move on from a failed relationship.

1. Unfollow social medias and delete hp number
Yeap. A must. If korang jenis yg suka stalk just stop. I know its hard wallahi for me too. Selagi kita teringat ingat kenangan silam xkan ke mana la. Kalau jenis boleh move on without unfollow medsos its ok. Then in the end aku memang deactivate and make new account. Fresh start gitu. Tiap org beza kan. So the choice is yours. I used to memorise his phone number tau hahaha. Obses sgt ke kau ni? Bukan obses, ye la konon org penting kan dlm life kene la hafal number semua. Lama2 memory tu terdelete sendiri hihi.

2. Do what u love
Student dentistry mungkin x sebusy student medicine. Ewahh sapa cakap hahaha. For me, lepas break tu aku suka duduk klinik sampai lewat petang. Senang cita sampai la pak guard halau hahahaha serius tapi xde la hari2 mcmtu. Because i keep myself busy. Boleh dikatakan aku orang yang paling awal pagi sampai and paling lewat balik. It makes me happy to meet patients and treat them. Requirement to be a dentist kt tmpt aku belajar ni best la so its quite enjoyable.Ikot suka nak dtg boleh xnak dtg boleh. I meant to grad as a dentist it was based on requirement. If rajin dtg makin cepat la habis requirement, if malas datang faham2 sendiri la yee. So thats what i did. Merajinkan diri and membusykan diri. Buat apa yang boleh menggembirakan hati inshaaAllah aura happy tu bole happykan orang sekeliling kita gitu.

3. Family first
Lepas break tu baru sedar aku mcm lebihkan orang yang akhirnya melukakan hati ni. Waaahh ayat kau vavavoom sgt. Dulu jarang nak call parents or siblings. After all this happen, only family will never leave us. Trust me. For me, ibu aku memang x berkenan dgn dia dari awal lagi sebab apa tak pasti tapi aku anggap ibu aku memain kot hihi. Siap ckp ala ibu ni biarla kita nak kawan dgn sapa. Mothers always right. Tq ibu. Abang aku pn sama terkejut bila aku kawan dgn dia since my brother know him from primary school. Again aku marah abg aku hahaha and cakap ala dulu sekolah lain nakal dia and dah besar dah ok sikit. After all, supporting family members is all i have alhamdulillah.

4. Bestfriends
Alhamdulillah for me i have my awesome bestfriends i can rely on. Waktu tgh fragile u need someone just to listen to ur nonsense talk and thats how i make myself better. Ada someone yang aku nak share apart from family members. Aku tanya tips move on semua haha mcm kelakar ingt balik. Sampai diorang pn jemu agaknya haha tq guys you know who u are.

5. Pray pray and pray
Last but not least, pray :)
MashaaAllah this part is the most important. Bila break tu aku ingt lagi aku mcm menyalahkan takdir wahh over x? Seolah2 aku menyalahkan tuhan kenapa jadikan bende ni kt aku and aku jadi makin lemah and few months tu dok syahdu sorang sorang and terganggu jugak la study and requirement. Rasa down sgt and xnak buat apa apa. I get used to recite yaasin almost everyday and thats how i find my calmness. Paksa diri utk dekatkan diri dgnNYA and dlm masa yang sama ikhlaskan diri. Doa banyak2 diberi kekuatan.

Aku salu ingat pesan ustaz pahrol ni. Jangan pinta hidup yang mudah tapi mintalah hati yang kuat untuk menghadapi segalanya.
MashaaAllah pegang lah kata2 tu and inshaaAllah you will be totally fine biiznillah. Let go and let God.
Tiap orang ujian dia berbeza beza dan Allah tahu kemampuan hamba-hambanya. Dia xkan uji melebihi kemampuan, thats what i remind myself everyday whenever i feel sad or down. So i hope all this tips could help inshaaAllah.

– dentist-to-be

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