Assalamualaikum.
Thank you admin kalau confession ni disiarkan.
Ok let just straight to the story ,about my sister,let just called her Kakak.Kakak, thun ni dh masuk 27 tahun and msih bujang,sma mcm adiknya ,eh. Dan seperti gadis² lain juga ,dia akn slalu ditanya ‘bila nak kahwin?’ . Tapi kakak sya ni lain.
Org tya byk kali,dia xpernah pressure atau marah ke sbb dia xrasa benda tu satu yg menjengkelkan. Kakak xpernah bercinta sjak lahir smpai skrg, tapi dia bgi sy , physically just nice. Kulit putih (ayah mix chinese) , tggi pun biasa je, bdn xkrus,xgemuk,Gigi je kedepan skit. Tapi kkak ni dgn laki dia xreti bergaul,maybe sbb tulah. Dia ckp suara lantang,xreti nak gedik² dia ni.Kawan dia mmg smua perempuan dan dia tak rasa lelaki perlu ada dlm hdup dia (mungkin buat masa ni).
Currently she is very happy with her own life. Ada kerja,travel dgn kawan,layan drama Korea, food hunting. She never thought about love from a guy. Sampaikan adelah makcik sedara tya dkt sy ,’Kakak kau tu peliklah, tak tahu nk berkawan dgn lelaki ke?’ . I was like what???Eh makcik, nothing weird with ‘not knowing how to befriend with guys’ ,but ofekos ckp dlm hati je,huhu. And lagi dramatik sbb makcik sedara sy tu dia pun ada marriage problem. Duhhh.
Mama xpernah pressure kakak pasal bf/kahwin because she knows well Kakak mcm mna. Yang selalu ditanya sya lah sbb sya prnh bercinta dlu. Maybe sbb tu kot,kakak sya xrsa pressure bila org tya bila nak kahwin ,sbb dia akn pass soalan tu dkt sy.
Tapi sya pernah tya knapa dia xnak kahwin lagi, dia ckp sbb Ayah.
Long story short,ayah kami ni adelah species biawak hidup. He rely on other’s money to live.Dia abaikan kami sekeluarga,smpai buat kakak sy hilang respect not just to Ayah but the whole guy in the universe (I mean xsemua). Sebab tu dia ada trust issue dgn lelaki and one thing dia takut utk kahwin sbb dia takut kahwin dgn lelaki yg salah,which will ruin her life just like what Mama experienced. Kahwin maybe the last thing yg dia akan fikir. Ayah is a fine guy actually.Belajar tinggi,dtg dari keluarga kaya tapi dia laki yg tak bertanggungjawab. Sampaikan Kakak even cakap, dia sanggup kahwin dgn laki belajar takat SPM tapi kerja sungguh² daripada yg belajar tingi² tapi end up jadi biawak hidup,mcm Ayah lah.
I think what Ayah did really put a lot of effect to her life. Sampai sekarang dia ada misconception on man. So just nak tambah ,utk guys out there DON’T BE A BIAWAK HIDUP. Really guys, bukan efek hidup korg je, it will ruin the whole family.Please. Dosa Besar!
I guess nothing wrong for her being single if she’s happy. She’s indeed am very happy now. Dan sy tahu ada byk perempuan di luar sna yg actually pun sama macam kakak, yg prefer untuk hidup mcm ni.
Nothing wrong if you’re late 20’s,early 30’s or older that that,still single. Asalkan you’re happy with your life, you contribute to your family (like what Kakak always did) and close to Allah, that’s more than enough.
– Lil sis
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